api: rework url parsing

- tlds are now parsed and validated correctly (e.g. ".co.uk" works now)
- url patterns are pre-compiled instead of being compiled for every request
- aliases are computed in a safe manner using the URL object where possible

package.json

@@ -36,6 +36,7 @@
         "hls-parser": "^0.10.7",
         "nanoid": "^4.0.2",
         "node-cache": "^5.1.2",
+        "psl": "^1.9.0",
         "set-cookie-parser": "2.6.0",
         "undici": "^5.19.1",
         "url-pattern": "1.0.3",